6-card spread
Relationship
Six cards in two rows for any relationship: romantic, family, friendship or work. The top row looks at each person and what joins them; the bottom row looks at what each person needs and where it is heading.
Hover a card to see what its position means.
The positions
- 1YouYou: how you are showing up in the relationship.
- 2ThemThem: how the other person is showing up.
- 3ConnectionThe connection: the energy between you.
- 4Your needsWhat you need from the relationship.
- 5Their needsWhat they need from it.
- 6OutcomeWhere the relationship is heading.
Reading it well
Mirror the columns
Read 1 against 4 and 2 against 5: how each person shows up versus what each actually needs.
The connection card
Position 3 describes the space between two people, not either of them. It is the card to ask questions of.
An example reading
“Where is this relationship heading?”
You arrive as the Queen of Cups, feeling everything and holding it with care; they arrive as the Knight of Wands, all speed and heat. Temperance between you says the mix can work if both of you adjust. You want the Four of Wands, a home and a celebration; they want the Eight, movement and momentum. The Two of Pentacles as the outcome is a relationship that juggles those needs, and keeps juggling.
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